Q: Allana, I don’t want to be in the middle of this any longer. My boyfriend’s mother is sick and he wants to move back home to be closer to her. His mother HATES me and he wants me to go with him. The doctors are saying the outlook is not positive and I want him to be there for his mother but I don’t think I am a big enough person to put aside my issues to endure her. Am I a horrible person?