Archive for kids

Can’t Pry my Wife Away from Kids for Intimacy

Q: Allana, my wife is incredible. She does so much for our family that I would love to do something for her. Unfortunately, I can’t pry her away from the kids long enough to spend an intimate, relaxing day out by herself. How can I convince her that she needs to take care of herself?

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Ex-Husband and I Want To Try Again

Q: My ex-husband and I are talking about starting again. When have two children and we never really stopped loving each other, we were just in two very different places in our lives. We want to try again but if things didn’t work out, we feel it would impact the kids even more. Any advice?

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Third Date Big Reveal – Kids!

Question: Allana, I met a wonderful woman and we had two incredible dates.  On the third date, she revealed she had children! Is it wrong to stop calling her? I have never wanted children and I don’t see that changing in my future.
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When Should I Mention Kids?

Question: When is it the right time to talk about kids with the person you are dating? Read More →

Kids Are Out of Control

Q: My kids are running circles around me and I feel like I don’t have control anymore.  The worst part is the judgment that comes from those around me.  We live in a small town and I can hear the whispers and I just want to hide behind a rock.  I just want to exclaim to them, “THEY’RE KIDS!”  What should I do?

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Secretly Sabotaging To Win Custody

Q: I have been secretly sabotaging my husband’s relationship with our kids because I want to file for divorce and have sole custody. He has been having an affair for the past three years and I don’t think he deserves to walk away with anything. Am I wrong or is he getting what he deserves?

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