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Is it OK to Compromise Your Values for Money?

Q: When is it OK to compromise your personal values and beliefs for the sake of money? I have been offered a job that goes against everything that I believe but the salary is UNBELIEVABLE! I don’t want to be a sell out but mama’s gotta pay the bills. What would you do if you were me? Would you hold onto your true core or would you push it aside for those dollar signs?

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Big Fight with Mom! Will She Ruin My Wedding?

Q: My wedding is in two weeks and I had a huge falling out with my mother. I lost contact with my father when I was young so she is my only family. What should I do? She is being really stubborn but I feel as if I should cave in just so she will be at my wedding. My concern is that caving in will only implode in the long run.

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Still In Love With My Ex!

Q: Allana, I think I am still in love with my ex. We are best friends now. He wanted my advice about whether or not he should get back together with his ex-girlfriend. We have come so far in our relationship that I don’t want to ruin it but it breaks my heart that he chooses her instead of me to rekindle a romance.

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Best Way to Help a Depressed Friend

Q: One of my friends on Facebook posted about his friend being depressed and asked what movie would be good to show them so they would appreciate life again. I think that’s a horrible idea. What do you think they should do or how do you suggest helping someone that is depressed?
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Am I Too Old to Catch a Man?

Q: Allana, at 43 I don’t feel as if I am good enough to “catch myself a man”, as my sister so kindly puts it. Any sage advice?

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Lost My Sense of Purpose

Q: Allana, on most days I have my shit together. But lately I just feel like I don’t know why I am doing what I am doing. What do you do when you feel like you have lost your sense of purpose?

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