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Wife and I No Longer Share a Bed

Q: Allana, I am worried.  My wife and I are no longer sharing a bed.  She told me that it was because she was having trouble sleeping. The thing is, we have always shared a bed! Am I missing a red flag? Is something wrong?

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No Money Talk!

Q: My husband and I differ completely when it comes to money. He wants to talk about it and I don’t! I have heard the number one fight between couples is money. How do I get him to understand we don’t share the same views.

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Can’t Communicate With Husband

Q: My husband and I have two different styles of communicating and fight all the time. How do we skip the frustration and learn to just talk to each other?

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Role Shift. Now I’m The Breadwinner

Q: My partner and I have shifted roles in our marriage.  He has been the breadwinner for the past nine years but recently stepped down to pursue a different career.  Now, I am the breadwinner; however, I now feel like I shouldn’t have to play maid, chef, lover, therapist to him when he is home. He always wanted me to understand his space when he was working but now he expects me to be the loving wife even though I’m supporting us as well. Any thoughts?

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Are We Ready To Live Together?

Question: I am 57 years old and only have 3 more years until retirement.  My “friend” wants me to settle down with him once I retire.  We’ve been together for almost 5 years and he really wants to get married.  My daughter thinks we should be in the same area together before moving in together.  What do you think?

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Help! How Can I Save My Marriage?

Q: I’ve done all I know how to save my marriage, but my wife isn’t responding.  What is your advice on what I should do next?

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