Q: My girlfriend of five years just told me she never wants to get married. I mean ever! This is a big deal for me because I have always wanted to be married. I have always wanted to have kids and start a family. I’m Christian and yes, while we have had sex, I don’t believe in having kids out of wedlock. I don’t want to throw away the past five years but I also don’t want to miss out on my life, either.