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Ex-Husband and I Want To Try Again

Q: My ex-husband and I are talking about starting again. When have two children and we never really stopped loving each other, we were just in two very different places in our lives. We want to try again but if things didn’t work out, we feel it would impact the kids even more. Any advice?

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He’s Getting a Divorce. Date Him or Run for It?

Q: Allana, I’m 54, divorced, and finally re-entering the dating scene.  I recently met a nice man who is currently going through a divorce. Having survived my own divorce, I know what he is experiencing and don’t want to be his rebound or reminder of one of the worst times in his life. I know I am being negative and it could be just the opposite but should I still date him or walk away?
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Divorced & Ready to Start Over

Question: I am ready to start over – finally! I have been divorced for 3 years and it took a long time to get here. I just don’t know where to start.

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I’ve been married 3 times. Is #4 doomed before it even starts?

You asked Allana: In 14 years, I have been married three times. The first marriage only lasted because we had a child. I couldn’t get out of the second fast enough. We won’t even discuss #3. I think I have met husband # 4 but I am guarded. How do I know all of these failed marriages aren’t my fault – what if #4 is already doomed before it even starts?
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