Archive for divorce

My Father is Gay, My Mother is Devastated.

Another question from the beautiful men at The Good Men Project.

Q:  Allana, my father just told me he is gay. I don’t care, I love him for being honest with himself; but, my mother, she is devastated. She keeps blaming herself and says she doesn’t know how to live her life without my father. What can I do?

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Losing My Wife. Is It Too Late?

Wanted to share one of my favorites from The Good Men Project:

Q:  Allana, I don’t know for sure but I think my wife is going to leave me. I will admit, I haven’t been the best husband. And while I have always provided for my family, I have put work before being present. Now that the kids are grown and out of the house, there is so much distance between us. I feel as if I realized this too late and I have lost her. How can I win her back? How can I save my marriage?

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She Doesn’t Love Me but Won’t Leave Me!

Q: I believe my wife no longer loves me and I have no idea why! I have flat out asked her and she has told me she doesn’t…but she won’t leave. Why would she stay with me if she doesn’t love me anymore?

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Divorced and We are Better Than Ever!

Q: Allana, my wife and I just divorced but for some reason, we are better than ever.  Was our divorce a mistake?

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Divorce is Killing Me

Q: Between the fighting, the lawyers, and the underhanded berating – I have had it with my husband (prayfully ex-husband). I am tired of the lies and the backstabbing Allana. How can I survive this divorce? It is killing me!

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Doubting Forever with my Marriage

Q: I have been married for one year and while I love my husband, the reality of “forever” is starting to kick in. Is this normal? I am starting to have doubts, can I do this? It’s only been one a year of marriage?

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