Archive for desire

Competing For Husband’s Desire

Q: Allana, my husband has a crush on you. While I thought it was cute after first, it made me start to get a little insecure when he made your pole dancing, birthday party pictures his desktop wallpaper. While you are a Goddess to which I can not hold a candle, I feel like I’m standing in your shadow. What can I do to get my husband to desire me as much as he seems to desire you?

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Is There a Threesome in My Future?

Question: My girl is completely comfortable in her skin and with her sexuality.  She constantly talks about other woman, who she finds attractive, and who she would date if she was a guy.  What are the chances that I could get her into a threesome?
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Getting A Gorgeous Co-worker To Desire Me

She is intoxicating.  You can’t get her out of your mind.  The way she walks, the way she talks, the way she commands a room and blows it away with just a smile or a glance.  In most cases, you could tolerate that she didn’t even know you existed.  Unfortunately, in your case – she hates you!

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Should LOVE be such hard work?


In this video I speak on how love IS going to take work! I give you tips on what efforts are important for a great relationship. I also explain how relationships can fail. I also address how you know where you are in your relationship and how to trust your intuitive wisdom.

If you want a better body, you go to the gym. You want to keep a plant alive? You water it! That Disney fairytale of finding the right one and everything will be bliss thereafter is “B.S.” There’s nothing wrong if there’s problems.

How much effort should you put in? What does a plant get on a daily basis? A plant gets sunshine, water, pruning, paying it attention. All these things make a plant thrive. They are also needed for a relationship to thrive.

Both partners should be willing to do the work. I’ve seen where one partner puts in most of the effort while the other puts only about 50%. That could work out. The one time where it won’t work is if one partner is putting forth 100% and the other 0%.

How do you know where you are? Trust your intuitive wisdom. You know where this relationship is. If you can’t trust your truth, have a professional like me help hold your space and go through this with you. Oh, the empowerment and excitement of what’s really possible!

YOU have the power to create anything that you desire!

Huge delicious erotic sensual love now and expanding forevermore, Allana