Archive for Dating Coach

Losing My Wife. Is It Too Late?

Wanted to share one of my favorites from The Good Men Project:

Q:  Allana, I don’t know for sure but I think my wife is going to leave me. I will admit, I haven’t been the best husband. And while I have always provided for my family, I have put work before being present. Now that the kids are grown and out of the house, there is so much distance between us. I feel as if I realized this too late and I have lost her. How can I win her back? How can I save my marriage?

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Stop Beating Yourself Up! Love Your Little You Starting Now

Question: Allana, the other day you posted about self denial. How do you heal from this when your self denial caused a break up with a person you actually wanted to be with, and want to get back in your life? Read More →

Hot Dating Rituals!

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To Date You, I Give Up Me

This question came from one of my glorious audience members at MeetMindful:

Question: Allana, I lose myself when I date someone! What is it going to take for my life to thrive with a partner?  Read More →

Son’s Asking about Absent Father is Heartbreaking

Q:  Allana, I am trying so hard to be strong for my child but every time my little boy asks me about his father (who isn’t in the picture), my heart breaks. What do I say to him? Why is he asking so much many questions about a person he has never met?

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Need One Lined Up Before I Can Move On

Q:  Coach, I have finally figured out something with the help of a friend of mine. I can’t move on from one girl/woman without meeting another.  I am still hung up on my ex-girlfriend but I realized I only got over the girlfriend before her because of her (and the one before that…) How do I break this cycle of having to replace the old with the new in order to be happy?

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