Archive for Dating Coach

Divorce is Killing Me

Q: Between the fighting, the lawyers, and the underhanded berating – I have had it with my husband (prayfully ex-husband). I am tired of the lies and the backstabbing Allana. How can I survive this divorce? It is killing me!

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Doubting Forever with my Marriage

Q: I have been married for one year and while I love my husband, the reality of “forever” is starting to kick in. Is this normal? I am starting to have doubts, can I do this? It’s only been one a year of marriage?

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Need to Cool my Jets

Q: I am falling too hard and too fast for a woman I barely know. I’m so caught up it is making me crazy. How do I cool my jets?

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Falling for my Friend

 

Q: My infatuation with a close friend is getting worse and I don’t know what to do about it. I am consumed with jealousy if she starts dating someone new and close myself off if she wants to invite me out with them. I don’t want to lose my friendship with her but I can’t control how I feel.

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Escape Bully at Work

Q: Hi Allana, I am a 37 year old male and I work with someone who is infuriating on a regular basis. We’re equals, yet he feels the need to constantly speak to me in this awful, condescending manner. He tells me he hates how I answer the phone. He repeats things several times as I am too dumb to understand it. And on more than one occasion he has asked me why they even hired me in the first place. I have been dealing with this for almost a year and I’m about to snap. How do I keep from decking this one guy one day?

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Had a Miscarriage. Feel Ashamed and Alone

Q: Allana, I recently had a miscarriage. It was very early in the pregnancy and I never told my boyfriend I was even pregnant. I feel so alone and ashamed. I’m too embarrassed to say anything now but each day is it getting harder as I go through this alone. I’ve never lost anyone – not my parents, grandparents, pets and I feel as if this is all my fault. Do you have any advice to help someone like me or am I a lost cause?

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