Archive for Dating Coach

Sacrifice Independence to be with a Man?

Q: Why do women feel as if they have to give up their independence in order to be with a man? Why do women feel as if they are automatically suppressed if they date?

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Paranoid I am Failing Again!

Q: Allana, I am so paranoid of my wife cheating on me. I don’t know why, well actually I do. She almost had an affair a few years ago. She told me and she said she didn’t want to lose what we had so we went to marriage counseling. I don’t know what I did to drive her to almost cheating. What if I am doing it again. I don’t even know what I am doing wrong.
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Trust My Wife, Don’t Trust Her Friends

Q: My wife’s upset at me. She doesn’t have any friends anymore. The issue is that all her friends are men. I want to be supportive of her social life but I don’t like it when a bunch of men want to hang out with my married woman. I’m not insecure. I totally trust my wife but I’m sure she wouldn’t be happy if a bunch of women started hanging out with me. How should I approach this issue?

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Is the Firing Burning Out in My Marriage?

Q: Allana, my wife and I decided to take a second honeymoon to this cute little quaint town and when we first arrived, we were like newlyweds. But after day 3, she has been sitting on the porch talking to other people instead of spending time with me. Did the fire burn out that fast? We took this trip because we were starting to grow apart. What should I do?

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Ruined My Relationship Beyond Repair

Q: My sweet Allana, I desperately need your help. I have ruined my relationship beyond repair. She moved out. She won’t take my calls. She won’t even acknowledge my existence. I went too far during a fight and I called her god awful names and made accusations I knew were not true. I just wanted to hurt her. What do I do? Is there anything I can do?

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Is This a Mid-life Crisis?

Q: Allana, my husband has recently decided to stop doing a lot of things that are making him very unattractive to me. He stopped cutting his hair, he stopped shaving, he stopped exercising, he even stopped bathing for a few days.  I don’t know if he is in a rut and when I ask him about it he tells me “Things are fine.” We’re in our mid-fifties.  Could this be a mid-life crisis?

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