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What To Do When You Don’t Want Someone

Q: One of my fellow classmates is easy on the eyes but his arrogance is nauseating. The worst part is he’s attracted to me and he swears I am secretly in love with him and playing hard to get (so essentially it is like we are in kindergarten and he is on recess pulling my pigtails, so to speak). What can I do to let him know I am just not interested.

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My Ex with a Girlfriend Still Loves Me

Q: Allana, I ran into my ex-boyfriend and his current girlfriend and it was an awkward encounter; but, the way he looked at me felt as if a flame was still burning for me. Should I reach out to him?

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Offering a House to Cancel Our Divorce

Q: I want a divorce but my husband doesn’t. I am trying to qualify to buy a house but at the same time selling the house we owned together. As I just filed for bankruptcy, I can’t get a loan. My husband has offered to buy a house for me and pay for it, if I call off the divorce. He said he wouldn’t live in it or anything. Should I do it?

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Wants to Commit…Just Not to Me!

Q: I wasn’t aware the guy I was dating was seeing myself and other people until he told me one of the girls wanted to be exclusive so he was going to see where that went. I feel kind of rejected. Is that normal? Should he have told me he was seeing other people? Should I have not assumed we were exclusive?

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Wife Hates Body but I LOVE It!

Q:  Allana, I think my wife is smokin’ hot. From head to toe, she is sheer perfection. She doesn’t think so. We don’t have any mirrors in the house except the bathroom because she doesn’t want to see herself. What advice can you give her and women like her who can’t/don’t see themselves in the same light as those who love them?

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Wife Won’t Slow Down

Q: My wife keeps having health issues because she just won’t slow down. Between issues with her heart, issues with her eyes, and who knows what else – she is falling apart. I want to help her and I try to be there for her but I don’t know how to get her to put on the brakes. She is insanely left-brain so I can’t present an argument that she can’t logically argue her way out of except the generic “I love you and I want you to be healthy.” That one she does respect and takes a step back for a second but then she starts up again. I don’t want her to end up in the hospital. Help! Read More →