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Is the Firing Burning Out in My Marriage?

Q: Allana, my wife and I decided to take a second honeymoon to this cute little quaint town and when we first arrived, we were like newlyweds. But after day 3, she has been sitting on the porch talking to other people instead of spending time with me. Did the fire burn out that fast? We took this trip because we were starting to grow apart. What should I do?

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Ruined My Relationship Beyond Repair

Q: My sweet Allana, I desperately need your help. I have ruined my relationship beyond repair. She moved out. She won’t take my calls. She won’t even acknowledge my existence. I went too far during a fight and I called her god awful names and made accusations I knew were not true. I just wanted to hurt her. What do I do? Is there anything I can do?

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Is This a Mid-life Crisis?

Q: Allana, my husband has recently decided to stop doing a lot of things that are making him very unattractive to me. He stopped cutting his hair, he stopped shaving, he stopped exercising, he even stopped bathing for a few days.  I don’t know if he is in a rut and when I ask him about it he tells me “Things are fine.” We’re in our mid-fifties.  Could this be a mid-life crisis?

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Ex-Husband and I Want To Try Again

Q: My ex-husband and I are talking about starting again. When have two children and we never really stopped loving each other, we were just in two very different places in our lives. We want to try again but if things didn’t work out, we feel it would impact the kids even more. Any advice?

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Waiting To Be Rejected

In honor of my next workshop starting in April, here is a sweet sincere question from the December workshop. Enjoy!

Q: Allana, I have been having the hardest time dating. I left my previous girlfriend because she was so emotionally and verbally abusive. And now, I am dating someone new, I am in a relationship, and I am so paranoid and psychologically messed up that I keep making mistakes, waiting for her to reject me. I don’t know how to put my mind at ease, I don’t know how to be present, I don’t know how to tell myself “the past is the past”.

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Girlfriend Talks About Exes and Hurting My Feelings

Found another yummy video from the Soul Shaking Conscious Relationship Week. If you missed the December workshop, you are just time to sign up for the one taking place in April. Sign up today: allanapratt.com/soul-shaking

Q: Allana, my girlfriend constantly talks about her past relationships. I mean, our relationship is great and we are the best of friends. I think she does it out of comfort, knowing that I won’t get offended or just really doesn’t think about how it could bother me. I don’t want to make a big thing out of it but I am wondering if I should at least start dropping hints because it does hurt my feelings.

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