Archive for commitment

Feel Like a Common Law Wife but Zero Benefits!

Q:   My mister and I have been together for over seven years. We raise two inspiring boys and have a supportive, healthy, honest relationship. My only hangup: marriage has become a huge point of contention between us. We talk about it from time to time, but it almost always escalates to arguing. I want to feel complete and happy without a ring, but I’m having a hard time not taking it personally. I want to accept the present moment, but I don’t want to let go of my dream. Help!
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Dream of Marriage…Dread Commitment!

Fear of committment
Q: You asked Allana, “I have a problem with commitment but I would love to be married some day. How on earth can I find the one if I don’t want to settle down?”
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More Kids Vs. Getting Snipped Battle

Q: My husband and I are not seeing eye to eye.  I want more kids, he is done and wants a vasectomy. Who gets to make the final call?

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Out of Sight, Out of Mind

You love being with your beloved.  You just get each other.  The laughter, the passion, the memories – you hope they never end; until, she tells you that she is taking a job in another state.  She wants to stay together and make it work; however, you have always been an “out of sight, out of mind” type of guy.  Can you truly be faithful if she isn’t around?

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What to Do When Your Boyfriend’s Foot is Out the Door!

Q: My boyfriend has one foot out the door and I am pregnant with his child and I’m in a custody battle about my first child. Please help me find the good in all of this.
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I’m Afraid of Commitment, Yet Want to Be Married- Help!

You asked Allana, “I have a problem with commitment but I would love to be married some day. How on earth can I find the one if I don’t want to settle down?”
Fear of committment

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