Archive for cheating

Kissed One Woman, Dating Another. Should I Confess?

Q:  Allana, if you were me – would you own up to doing something stupid of you know it would jeopardize your relationship OR would you keep it to yourself since you know they would never find out? Halloween this year, I thought my girl was cheating on me so I made out with some woman at a party. I was in a costume, she was in a costume. It was dark so I don’t think there is any way that it could get back to my girl that it was me.

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Cat is Away, Mouse with Play

Q:  Allana, when the cat is away the mouse likes to play. When my husband is away, I hook up with my ex-boyfriend. I know it is wrong but I just can’t stop doing it. I have tried to cut him off but the sex with my husband is mediocre and the sex with my ex is mind-blowing. I have heard of the 80/20 solution and I feel this is it. Together I have 100% of what I want but if I get with one or the other I am miserable. What should I do?

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Caught Girlfriend Kissing Another Man

Q: Allana, I feel as if my heart was just ripped out of my chest. I walked in on my girlfriend kissing another man. She gave a bunch of excuses but I just don’t know what to do.

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Is it wrong to have a one night stand?

Question: Is it wrong to have a one night stand or affair? Read More →

Wife Cheating with Co-Worker

Q: Almost a month ago, my wife told me she had an affair with a co-worker. I think my marriage is over.  I am trying to stay but my heart has already walked out the door. What do I do?

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Don’t Want to Hide My Friends

Q: Before I was married, all of my friends were male.  I don’t know – I just connect with the better.  That is how my husband and I met.  Now that we are married, he has an issue with my guy friends. His point of view – as long as he doesn’t know they exist, I can have them in my life. That just doesn’t seem right to me. I try to honor him by making sure all my friends are female but I don’t know if he is in the wrong telling me to hide it or if I should be ashamed for considering male friends?

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