Archive for boredom

Son’s Asking about Absent Father is Heartbreaking

Q:  Allana, I am trying so hard to be strong for my child but every time my little boy asks me about his father (who isn’t in the picture), my heart breaks. What do I say to him? Why is he asking so much many questions about a person he has never met?

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Need One Lined Up Before I Can Move On

Q:  Coach, I have finally figured out something with the help of a friend of mine. I can’t move on from one girl/woman without meeting another.  I am still hung up on my ex-girlfriend but I realized I only got over the girlfriend before her because of her (and the one before that…) How do I break this cycle of having to replace the old with the new in order to be happy?

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It’s Been Way Too Long Since I Sealed the Deal

Q: It has been so long since I have had sex that I can’t even get myself to completion. I get bored part way through and just give up! What is wrong with me?

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Strong Women are a Threat? WHY?

Q:  Allana, I am a strong fierce woman who speaks her mind. I work with several men and the rumor around the office is that they want to get rid of me because I won’t submit and do just as I am told. What is going on in this world that we live in where a strong woman is such a threat?

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Getting Over His Rejection

Q:  Allow me to thank you for your sharing, I could be your twin. Same story with me, exactly – except, I can’t move on from the one that said “We don’t have enough stuff for long term compatibility.”

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Kissed One Woman, Dating Another. Should I Confess?

Q:  Allana, if you were me – would you own up to doing something stupid of you know it would jeopardize your relationship OR would you keep it to yourself since you know they would never find out? Halloween this year, I thought my girl was cheating on me so I made out with some woman at a party. I was in a costume, she was in a costume. It was dark so I don’t think there is any way that it could get back to my girl that it was me.

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