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When does persistence become harassment or stalking?

Q: Allana, When does persistence become harassment/stalking?

A: I get juicy when man knows what he wants and it’s me. I adore a man who honors my heart, mind and body and wants to spend time with me. Texting and emails are great once a day or even every other day which gives me space to desire you. I love it when men notice the slope of my neck, or my goofy giggle, or to know they were thinking of me. Personally I have a life and don’t care for several texts throughout the day, yet sexting at night for half and hour can be hot. I have zero tolerance for harassment and stalking.

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So Dark. Can’t See the Light

Q: Allana, I am so lost right now. I feel like I am being pulled into two different directions. I started journaling to give myself perspective but that isn’t even working. I feel as if my marriage is over, I hate my job, and I have shut myself off for so long that my friends have give up on me. I am trying to stay out of the dark edges of my mind but I do myself asking what’s the point?

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Colliding Co-Workers

Q: Allana, there are two alpha females at my job that keep clashing and it is making work a little tense, to say the least. I feel like I am stuck between two raging thunderstorms that are about to collide and make a super-storm. Is there anything I can do?

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4 Year Old Driving Me Nuts!

Q: Allana, I am going to lose it with my almost 4 year old. I’m a single mom and he is pushing my boundaries to the point that they might break. Everything is a fight, everything is a debate, everything is an issue. He’s my only and this might be normal but between his attitude and my stress at work, I am…I don’t even know anymore.

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First Date Disappointment

Q: I have tried online dating and always post the best pic of myself but each time I have met the guy, he acts like he is disappointed. What’s the deal? Is it my personality? I hope it isn’t the bottom half of me that turns them off, that would be heartbreaking!

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Husband Works with Hottie. Not Happy!

Q: Allana, I think I know the answer but it is always best to hear it from you. My husband has been working with a VERY attractive woman for a few months and I am jealous as hell. It isn’t that I don’t trust him, I don’t trust her. She is married but when has that ever stopped anyone. I have joked about it a few times but I think it is starting to annoy him and I can see a fight in our near future. What can I do to get past this?

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