Archive for acceptance

Accepting that I Will Always Be Single

Q:  I’m a 39 year old male from the UK who has never really had a break with women. In fact, the last girlfriend I had was when I was 23. I’ve come to the conclusion that it’s just not meant to be after my lack of any relationship took me down the path of a suicide attempt and complete breakdown back in 2012. I got counseling for this in 2013 and have been getting by ever since on my own but being single still hurts me nearly every day. I’m worried that it may drive me back towards how I felt in 2012 and having seen some of your videos, you give some really good advice. Could you please give me some pointers on how I might alter my approach to understanding that I won’t meet anyone and have to deal with that, so that I might come to terms with the situation? Most people tell me it’ll happen eventually but it’s now been 16 years that I’ve been single and I would rather just learn how to come to terms with it.

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Tired of Babying My Husband

Q: My husband knows very little about woman.  Actually he knows nothing about women.  His father wasn’t present and he has only had one other girlfriend.  This constantly creates a huge issue in terms of our communication.  He doesn’t seem to be able to read me or my mood.  He doesn’t know how to make me feel like a woman: special, unique, a priority.  I don’t expect him to read my mind but I don’t feel like constantly telling him what’s going on or what he needs to do.  I’m babying him.

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How Do I Learn To Really Accept Myself?

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Question: As a part of my New Year’s Resolution, I am trying to find a better way to accept the challenges in my life and grow and become more real and honest in my shortcomings. What tips do you have on, not really re-inventing yourself, but in accepting yourself?

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