Q: My wife keeps having health issues because she just won’t slow down. Between issues with her heart, issues with her eyes, and who knows what else – she is falling apart. I want to help her and I try to be there for her but I don’t know how to get her to put on the brakes. She is insanely left-brain so I can’t present an argument that she can’t logically argue her way out of except the generic “I love you and I want you to be healthy.” That one she does respect and takes a step back for a second but then she starts up again. I don’t want her to end up in the hospital. Help!
A: First off, you are such an incredible husband to reach out because you care so much. Her heart is closed, her heart is wounded, her heart is hurting – she isn’t sourcing her worth from the inside out.
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