Q: Allana, I am the proud mother of three beautiful children; but, I have always wanted four. I know I made the age old mistake of not discussing how many children when I first got married but now that kid number 3 has arrived my husband has flat out said “No more kids!”. He wants a vasectomy. I’m heartbroken as I have always wanted a round number of children. Do you think this is fair? How can I change his mind?
A: Thank you for owning that you didn’t have the honest conversation with him out of the gate. It would be best to have that conversation now, a true heart to heart about what you are feeling, thinking, wanting without him feeling manipulated, forced, pushed, or threatened.
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