Q: A question from my beautiful friends at Digital Romance: Allana, I’m running out of patience but I know I put myself in this situation. Three years, THREE YEARS and he still hasn’t left his wife as he promised. How much longer should I date him? How much longer should I let him dangle the carrot of a future before I just walk away.
A: My love – it was probably three seconds, three minutes, three days too long – let along three years. Why would you even date someone married in the first place? No judgment, only kindness and curiousity. It is a recipe for disaster. They are clearly not emotionally available. Have I seen this turn into a happy ending in my 17 years of coaching, yes – once or twice but it is VERY rare.
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