Q: Allana, everyone but me knew I was still in love with my ex. By the time I realized it, it was too late and he had met someone else. We have gone through so much together and I know if I just told him how I felt we would be together again. I am the one that ended it. I am the one that broke his heart but the things I care about then just don’t matter now. What should I do?
A: You need to heal the past or you are going to be overcompensating with shame and regret. Without the proper healing, you are going to just repeat the events that lead up to the two of you going your separate ways but this time, you will now break his heart and the heart of someone who may have truly loved him without an asterick.
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