Paranoid I am Failing Again!

Q: Allana, I am so paranoid of my wife cheating on me. I don’t know why, well actually I do. She almost had an affair a few years ago. She told me and she said she didn’t want to lose what we had so we went to marriage counseling. I don’t know what I did to drive her to almost cheating. What if I am doing it again. I don’t even know what I am doing wrong.

A: I am so sorry. It must feel awful to not know what you did or if you are doing again. This is a recipe for daily anxiety and fear! It can’t feel good to feel as if you have a speed bump in front of everything you say or do!

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  1. I find that most guys usually struggle with cheating issues when boundaries are set up front and when communication isn’t flowing between the two partners. It turns into a game of Prisoner’s Dilemma where each partner feels that they can’t trust the other, which yields a suboptimal outcome. As a guy, the best thing to do is to set a standard for yourself that you uphold of what you are and aren’t willing to tolerate.

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