Q: Allana, if you were me – would you own up to doing something stupid of you know it would jeopardize your relationship OR would you keep it to yourself since you know they would never find out? Halloween this year, I thought my girl was cheating on me so I made out with some woman at a party. I was in a costume, she was in a costume. It was dark so I don’t think there is any way that it could get back to my girl that it was me.
A: Ok, so you are looking at the effect of what has happened. I want to focus on the cause. Notice how with just a thought, you went directly to revenge. This illuminates the lack of desire to sit in the fire, the easy out of hurting another, and the avoidance of facing the issue.
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