Handling The Disaster Known As Your Love Life
Allana, I just recently discovered you on YouTube and I'm doing some soul searching, and getting marriage advice on a lot of topics. You see I have been married 10 years. My husband and I have a three year old. We've always been very close but after we had our son, my desire for sex went way down. I have no desire at all. My husband, on the other hand, can't go more than 72 hours without sex. I don't even like to pleasure myself. The only way I can actually get in the mood is drinking or looking at erotic pictures and both of those situations are not healthy. I have fallen out of love with my husband and feel like I am just going through the motions. I'm a stay at home mom but not by choice. I was thankful to stay on a home when he was a baby but now that he is three, I need a job and interaction with adults on a daily basis; however, the cost of daycare makes it impossible for me to go back to work. I'm extremely jealous of my husband's ability to get up every day and be with adults. I'm 100% dependent on him because his job doesn't allow me to be able to work. He gets really paranoid if I want to go out and be with my girlfriends. He only wants to go out with me, he doesn't have any buddies. I'm stuck in a rut and I need some legit help finding out who I am and why I feel this way.
