Q: I found a topless picture of another woman on my boyfriend’s phone. I asked him about it and he said he let his friend borrow his phone and the pictures were a joke. I pushed him to tell me what friend and he asked me to drop it and told me I was getting bent out of shape over nothing. Is he lying? Should I really just let it go and trust he is telling me the truth?
A: Whenever someone gets defensive of bent out of shape – that is a red flag because the truth doesn’t need a defense.
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