Q: Allana, my husband has a crush on you. While I thought it was cute after first, it made me start to get a little insecure when he made your pole dancing, birthday party pictures his desktop wallpaper. While you are a Goddess to which I can not hold a candle, I feel like I’m standing in your shadow. What can I do to get my husband to desire me as much as he seems to desire you?
A: I can not imagine how infuriating, disempowering you may feel and are driven to write me because you feel as if you can not communicate with your husband. You are not in my shadow, step out into your own courageous self. My desire is to empower you not compete with you and definitely not to make you or anyone else feel inferior.
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