Discover How to Dissolve The “Nice Guy” Persona and Awaken the Confident Noble “King” Within
Powerful Strategies to Help You Attract High-Quality Women, Re-Ignite Her Passion and Get Her to Say Yes
Are you worried that your “nice guy” persona is keeping you stuck in a cycle of low-quality relationships with women who hurt, betray or reject you?
Perhaps you long to have a passionate, intense relationship but instead you’re experiencing drama or silent treatments.
You want to be strong and relaxed and not let anything take you off your center.
You want to trust women again, so you can be vulnerable around them. If you meet that special woman, you want to be the one man she can’t resist. And if you’re in a relationship, you want her to see you as her hero, or the one person in her life that can expedite her happiness instead of getting in the way of it.
You want her to melt into you and trust you to be the pillar she so craves in her life.
You want to feel confident about your worth, but instead, you hesitate or procrastinate the things you know you should be doing or accomplishing.
Or maybe you’re not connected to your purpose, and therefore, you’re never content with your place in the world. The next job doesn’t do it for you. Neither does the next girl or the next deal. It’s never enough.
You’re never enough.
What will it take for you to finally step into being the man you know you’re supposed to be?
Maybe you’ve been wounded by life and by women. Those betrayals have created an energy of hesitation and low self-esteem, which in turn attracts more of the same to you.
So what will it take for you to break the shackles and step into your King energy?
Healing your heart is the answer.
In order to do that, you’ll need to balance putting your awareness outside of you to what’s happening on the inside of you, in order to access that warrior place within.
You’ll need to let go of assumptions, about yourself and about women, by learning what’s really going on in her (and your) head and heart around love and sex.
You’ll need to know how to face a woman’s strong emotions head on, without fear or discomfort, so you can be the man she can surrender to.
In a nutshell, you’ll need to let go of the “Nice Guy” whose been running your life.
The Nice Guy…
What is the Nice Guy persona and why is it so detrimental to your happiness as a man?
It’s detrimental because the Nice Guy has a need to please. Therefore, he resorts to manipulation in order to get what he wants. True happiness can never come from manipulation.
A Nice Guy lacks the self-assurance that allows a woman to feel safe. Therefore, when she’s with a Nice Guy she feels a need to take control, and often comes off as bitchy, bossy and dissatisfied. You’re unhappy because you end up with women who tend to be controlling and hard to please.
A Nice Guy mistakenly thinks that he needs to be soft and solicitous in order to keep a woman.
This feminine energy can make a woman reject you, whether you’re single or in a relationship. You’re rejected for sex. You’re rejected for your needs. You’re rejected for having your own feelings.
Vs. The King
A King, on the other hand, asks for what he wants and needs. He makes a plan and doesn’t get caught up in emotions—neither his own or his woman’s—in order to execute that plan.
A King is always a leader and never a follower. He is never a bully. He inspires and doesn’t coerce.
A King is his Queen’s hero, her strong protector and the source of her deepest desire. A Queen wants nothing more than to surrender her body and heart to her King and feel adored and cherished in return.
If you recognize that Nice Guy inside you right now and hate him, I understand, and it’s not your fault. You were never mentored by the right person or shown how to be a King without being overtly macho or a control freak.
I want you to experience what it feels like to step into your birthright as a man and be the King you were always meant to be.
You may not have gotten the guidance in childhood, and you may have been misled as a man. It’s okay, because it’s never too late to begin anew and set things right.
That’s why I created a program to help you do just that.
Introducing Dear Lover, a Program That Helps You Break Free of the “Nice Guy” Persona, Own Your Purpose and Be the Man She Really Craves
My Dear Lover 6-week video program will give you the insights and tools to reprogram how you show up in the world and to women.
It will show you how to dissolve your Nice Guy and help you manifest the King you were always meant to be.
If you’re single, Dear Lover will show you the strategies to attract more of the kind of high-quality women you’re attracted to.
You’ll then learn how to get her to say “YES!”.
Yes to going on a date with you.
Yes to softening to your touch.
Yes to sex.
Yes to a relationship.
And if you’re married or in a relationship, it will show you how to create a more intimate bond with your woman, so she’s more open, more trusting and more tender with you. With your newfound King persona, she’ll crave being with you sexually like never before.
You’ll learn how to operate from and integrate your balls (sexuality and masculinity) into your everyday life.
With the insights, strategies and exercises you’ll get from this program, you’ll acquire the skills that will enable you to be the one man with whom she is relaxed, open and surrendered.
She’ll start to praise you, appreciate you, touch you. She’ll start to exhale in to you.
You will become the banks of the river and her safe haven. This is when a woman shifts into trusting and devotion.
This is when she will say, “Yes.”
That’s the power you hold as a man.
This Is Just a Small Sample of What Else You’ll Learn from Dear Lover:
- The biggest sabotaging factor for men and what a woman needs in order to want to say “yes” to you.
- What if you get triggered by your woman? You want to neither react or sit on the guidelines doing nothing. How to step into your power as a man and respond in a way that elevates your masculinity.
- A video demonstration on how to handle an emotional woman and stay grounded so she feels safe and it deepens your relationship.
- What women actually find sexy in a man in terms of their career and success. (You’ll be surprised. It’s not what you think.)
- The one piece of clothing you wear that screams “boy” or announces “real man” and how to put your look together for maximum impact on a woman.
- Tips for dating single moms or busy career women that will score you big points.
- How and where to touch a woman in order to diffuse a heavily emotional moment.
- The reason you may be attracting competitive, combative women who are controlling and the shift you can make today to attract softer, more feminine women.
- Word-for-word scripts on how to argue with a woman in a way that won’t emasculate you.
Here’s What You’ll Receive:
- A 6-part DVD program intended to be watched one week at a time.
- 6 curriculum PDFs with homework and lesson plans to go with each video
- 1 powerful 20-minute guided meditation
- 5 letters (PDFs) from Allana to her lover as she journeys with you to curing you of the Nice Guy