She Used Me For a Green Card
In this video, Intimacy expert Allana Pratt answers this shocking question: "She used me for a green card then dumped me after our marriage!
Question: 5 years of lies! Complete lies! I found out the only reason my girlfriend was with me was because she needed her freakin' green card and I was the dumbass that fell for it. I guess I must have had sucker written all over my face. She told me she loved me, I thought it was real, and all of a sudden she confessed that she was in love with someone else and only needed me to get citizenship but now that she found someone she really cared about, she was letting me go. What do I do with this pain? Where do I go from here?
Answer: Oh my goodness this must really sting. I can hear your rage and fury, I can hear your hurt and pain, I can feel how intensely you are judging yourself for being a dumbass and sucker. Ouch ouch ouch on so many levels.
I'd like to break this down into different areas in support of your healing. Right out of the gate given I can't jump through this blog to give you a healing hug on your path to peace...
