Question: After reading your book How To Be And Stay Sexy and doing your practices, I’m pleased to say I’m getting quite a lot of attention from men! And it scares the crap out of me!
Answer: Yeh!!!!!!!!!!!! It’s working!!!! Congratulations for taking action to invest in my book and for putting the practices into action! Yes, they DO work. Now I’d recommend you receive my support in my Redefining Sexuality Membership so we can talk about this every two weeks on the Live Calls and you can have access to over 100 guided meditations, interviews and video tips for this very question and more! www.RedefiningSexuality.com
In the Membership there is a powerful meditation about Transforming Men’s Attention. I recommend you listen to it every night until you see a shift. The core of it is that what you resist persists… if you resist the attention, you will give away your power and men can manipulate you, leaving you in permanent fear.
Instead breathe in their attention. Like a wizard of transformation, like the ancient Tonglen practice, alchemize their attention from whatever vibration it’s at (slimy to noble) by internally affirming, “Yes, I am a glorious Goddess of the most radiant” or “Yes, I am a diva rockstar hottie, you bet” Then exhale the energy back to him with an internal sentiment of gratitude…. “thank you for noticing” or “how wonderful you honored me”… Watch men either straighten up, leave or if they are worthy of your presence, step up.
Works like a charm, lifting the whole situation to one of safety, honor and expansive movement.