Question: I have heard of self-sabotage but my boyfriend takes it to the extreme. He determined to not be happy – no matter what anyone does. He is a wonderful person but he has incredibly high “his” and extremely low “lo’s”.
Answer: Well my love, there are a few ways to look at this situation. First, what would it take for you to be ok, at peace, in allowance of him not being happy? This does not mean you agree to it or prefer it, it means that you allow it to exist within your universe while honoring your true self. There is a possibility that he may be doing this for attention, yes? If this the root cause -good news – it can be changed!
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