10 Questions to Change your Marriage

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Is this meant to be?  Should we stay together?  What’s the point?  Is divorce an option?  So many ask me those questions and more – they want my years of experience to guide their hearts.  The first thing we do is the following practice that I would like to share with you.  Take a moment, read through the questions, close your eyes, breath, open them, and begin answering them, one by one.  If you find you are still lost, remember – I am only an email away.

  1. Where am I judging myself as not good enough to make this work? Let that go.
  2. Where am I judging him as not good enough to make this work? Let that go.
  3. Where am I letting other people’s lives compare to mine? Let that go.
  4. Where am I letting other people’s opinions of what’s wrong, influence me? Let that go.
  5. Where am I forgetting to focus on what I do well as a wife? Focus on that.
  6. Where am I forgetting to focus on what he’s doing well as a husband? Focus on that.
  7. Where am I hanging onto the past, holding grudges, expecting the worse? Let that go.
  8. Where am I unwilling to dream again, allow in what I really want to have? Open to that.
  9. Where am I using my marriage problems as an excuse not to move forward in my life? Let that go.
  10. What is one conversation I could have with him/her that would set us free? Have it.

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