Archive for Questions and Answers – Page 3

Receiving Compliments

Q: “I have a hard time receiving compliments. Even ‘thanks’ makes me squirm. I wonder if this is universal, or just my issue? Your theories, and thoughts would be appreciated.”
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Eye Contact. How Long is Too Long?

Tim messaged me and asked about his intense gaze, that he thought it was too much so he got insecure and started looking away. Now his lady friend thinks he’s ignoring her. He wants to fix this fast!
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CoLiving for the Kids. Now My Ex Has a New Boyfriend!

Q: Allana , my ex and I have been doing the whole co-parenting/co-living thing but now she has started dating and it’s pissing me off. I understand we are divorced and we agreed to this but why is it so easy for her to move on? Did I mean nothing to her?
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Introducing Your Sexual Desires to Your Partner

Q: What’s the best way to introduce something sexual in a new dating relationship? Especially because I feel they may be deemed too dirty… threesomes, S&M, sex swinging etc. I don’t want to scare them off, yet I want to test the waters.
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First Date Was to an Adult Store!

Q: I recently read an article Allana, that a man was so determined not to be put in the friend zone, that he took his first date to a porn store parking lot. While I think that is awesome, how would a rational woman react to that? I find it kinda funny but I do think something was wrong with him!
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Who to Trust When Dating

Q: What is the secret to determining if someone I am dating is worth keeping, is trustworthy, essentially is an honest person.
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