Archive for Questions and Answers

Who to Trust When Dating

Q: What is the secret to determining if someone I am dating is worth keeping, is trustworthy, essentially is an honest person.
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Disagree! Don’t Avoid Dinner with the Ex!

Q: Allana, I just caught one of your YouTube videos. Personally, I have dinner regularly with my ex. It was important to me that we ended as friends. I still dated other people, it caused no problems. If there are no conflicts, why not? Read More →

We All Use Each Other in Relationships, Right?

Q: Allana, in your YouTube video about the woman falling in love with the man that lives with his girlfriend, you said “He’s using you!” In any relationship, everyone uses each other in some degree to meet each others needs, wouldn’t you agree?
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Lesbian Sister is Hitting It Off with My Bi Girlfriend, Help!

Q: Oh Allana, my sweet Allana. I would love your opinion on my twisted situation. I’m a 34 year old male. I have a wonderful 29 year old sister. The kicker is she is a lesbian and I am full support of her, until last week when she found out the girl I was dating is bi and then they hit it off. Now, I know there are rules between men when it comes to expressing interest in someone you are dating but what are the rules about siblings?
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In Love with a Man Who’s Girlfriend Just Died (He Left Me for Her)

Q: I’m in love with a man, who’s in love with his girlfriend (who recently passed away). The woman he left me for just recently died in a car accident. We were together for three years. I want to be there for him but watching him mourn over the woman he chose over me is more than I can bare. Is this the sign I need to walk away completely?
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First Date Sex

Courtesy of Digital Romance

LOVE your questions and this time I decided to comment on a study from which states “Men 74% More Likely to Have First-Date Sex Lead to a Relationship.” It might sound strange, but the results show men have a greater chance of ending up in a relationship after having sex on a first date.

I talk about making this decision to have sex or not, what’s motivating that choice, what does having sex mean to you, what does it say to your partner, and some powerful questions to ask so that you make the highest choice for you, your heart and your future.

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