Archive for Questions and Answers

Is It Even Possible to Truly Sexually Satisfy a Man?

Q: Allana, is there ever a point in time when a man can truly be sexually satisfied?

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Is the a Drop Dead Time on Friends With Benefits?

Should there be an expiration date to friends with benefits? Well that depends not on the friends with benefits, that depends on what you want.

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Sexually Abused Spouse. How Can I Be Supportive?

Question: My wife suffered from sexual abuse as a child, and while she’s been fine most of our marriage, suddenly she’s developed panic attacks when we make love. How can I help her through this?

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What Do You Do When Your Beloved Is Hiding Something?

Throwback to a holiday favorite.  Enjoy!

Q:  Allana, I don’t know why but I have this sinking suspicious that my boyfriend is keeping something from me.  I have no idea what to do!

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How Can I Reclaim My Masculine Energy After a Divorce?

Question:  Allana, I’m having trouble being assertive, turning heads as a man since my divorce. I now don’t have faith in myself. What should I do? Read More →

What Is the Appeal of Chasing the Unavailable?

 

Question: Why do we want what we can’t have?

Answer: What a great question! I’ve got three responses for that. The first is to be safe! A long term relationship is probably a way to stay safe and alone because logistically they hardly ever work.

Sometimes it has something to do with your self-esteem. You choose people that just won’t work. It affirms that you’re not enough. Acknowledge this behavior and see that you’re amazing! You’re enough!

It may also be because of the mentality that life would be boring if we find someone and fall in love. We can get addicted to the chase. You can’t think that way. It would be the beginning of a whole new phase of adventure!

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