“I’m not creative and seem to be really bad with dates”
I seem to be really bad at dates. The dates I plan are just boring. Dinner, a movie, dinner and a movie… how do I spice things up? Any unique and creative date ideas that will be sure to win her over? Read More →
I recently went on a first date and knew within the first 10 minutes that I was not interested. He, however, seemed very interested. In that situation is it best to be honest and upfront and end the date early, or should I sit through the meal and waste his time?
First is that have coffee as a first date which is so much easier to leave more swiftly. Second, he’s a human being! He may not be the one yet there must be some interaction of value to be had… some gift in the exchange, yes? Be gracious, kind and grateful and honor his time. You were drawn to meet him for some reason, maybe it’s a non related dating topic, yet be open to the gift he may have for you, and you for him.
More juicy advice in the video!
Love & Light,
QUESTION: I suspect my daughter may be thinking of handing her V-card to her boyfriend. Of course I want to lock her in her room to keep her young and innocent forever — but I know that’s not realistic. I don’t want to encourage her to have sex but I also want to make sure she is prepared when she does. Any advice you can give me would be appreciated!!
ANSWER: This is big, mama. I hear you. Here is my video answer, huge loving hug,
Never have I been so clear about what I love to do, what I am honored to hold space for… I love to go into the darkness and be with the shame, guilt and punishment that we inflict upon ourselves… and help heal that, release us from that, shine light on the blind spot so we can see again, shine again, soar in totality. Read More →
Enjoy this video of our experience!
While I’ve heard from other women that they began to go grey in their twenties… when 44 hit, it’s like my hair got the memo! Grey! Even in my eye brows! Yet as I discussed with Andrea Owen, my most recent guest on Intimate Conversations LIVE, neither of us have had the grey public hair yet. Praise the Lord for small miracles!
You know I focus on the inner game, our inner world, intimacy… our heart. I remember during my modeling years how I was so wrapped up in looking good, that I personally was unwilling to live in that constant fear of getting older and letting that define my beauty. As you know, I’ve personally transformed this external neediness into internal calm confidence and it’s my honor to support others on this journey.
THEN when we take action in our outer beauty, it’s truly a reflection of our inner glow and together the inner and outer create a SHAZAM of radiance that’s unstoppable and irresistible!
Case in point with Sarah, owner and stylist at Mix Salon in Atwater Village in Glendale, CA. I had made peace with my grey. I had embraced my salt and pepper transformation. I enjoyed my beauty as it was and rocked it the best I could. Then Sarah offered me a day of beauty for my Bday!!! OMG!!! Yes please!!!
Sarah is like this amazing head colorist for Paul Mitchell and knows color like a master. Her eyes get all focused on you, your eyes, your energy, your personality… and she starts mixing color like it’s a potion and you’re a Queen. I loved it! The results were amazing!!! I totally love it! I honestly had no idea of how incredible it feels to get a KILLER scalp massage! I honestly haven’t felt so empowered with a new hair cut in ages! It’s like she opened the door for even more of ME to shine! I feel inspired to let the trend flow into my fashion and makeup. The mix of funky and sophistication she gave me is really an external expression of the inner ME! I don’t know if this is why she called the salon MIX, but she did create the perfect mixture of ME with color.
So if you’d like a day of beauty for yourself, contact Sarah for SURE! http://www.salonmixonline.com
And if you’d like to have your inner erotic creature soar along side your locks of gorgeous hair, have you tried my Embrace Your Sacred Erotic Guided Meditation that I recorded in the luscious jungles of Costa Rica? http://allanapratt.com/product/embracing-the-sacred-erotic-you/
Sending massive delicious love to you beautiful sister! Allana xxoxo