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Why We Fall Out of Love

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I believe people fall OUT of love because their needs aren’t getting met. Either they feel controlled and unable to experience freedom or power… if it’s a personal relationship it could be because they don’t experience being loved or belonging… or it’s become all work and no play, no passion, no fun.

To make relationships work, both parties allow the other to do as they see fit… and that natural expression works for the other. One likes taking out the garbage and that works for both. The other likes making dinner and that works for both. As soon as you control the other, you can’t go play poker with the boys, or EVEN roll your eyes or disconnect love ever so slightly… it’s a downhill slope… so the idea is to find someone who’s natural ways complement yours so that both people feel freedom, power, fun, belonging and ultimately love.

WAY easier said than done, yet as soon as you stop controlling another and get curious, unattached and willing to truly GET another’s needs and allow freedom, either a solution appears or you bless and release the partnership with grace.

Blessings, Allana

Allana’s Client’s Success Now A One Man Show

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In the many years I have been fortunate enough to do something I love, I have met some amazing people who have changed my life as much as I have changed theirs.  It is an honor and a privilege to share this amazing news! One of my client’s is now performing a one man show:

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How to go from Devastated to Delicious after a Divorce

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I remember when my husband and I separated, he went off to NYC to get laid for the weekend. Lovely. Then he married MY female financial advisor who found out a millionaire was on the loose. Ouch.

When my clients tell me war stories of him leaving her for a younger woman, her taking him to the cleaners, the betrayals, abandonment and cruelty that goes on, the first thing to help them out of stuck sorrow is to get angry.

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Intimate Conversations – Highlights with Dr. Wendy Walsh

What a wonderful interview! A point that stayed so alive with me during the interview, “Don’t go for the one, go for someone who is ready!” Start with self-intimacy! Read More →

Hot Dating Rituals!

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I lose myself when I date someone

Question: Allana, I lose myself when I date someone! What is it going to take for my life to thrive with a partner?  Read More →