For years I was into the wanting, creating the vision board to want that reality…Wanting a great man in my life, wanting to feel his support, and partnership: truly, absolutely clear with what I wanted. Crystal clear.
And he never showed up.
I had done steps 1-6 brilliantly, was radiant, self-loving, turned heads when I entered a room, had my bulk pack of batteries for my operated “friend”… And yet he still didn’t show up.
The only men that showed up kept alive in me the feeling of “wanting” him… They didn’t call enough, they wouldn’t commit, they weren’t ready for relationship, they weren’t that into my son… I “wanted” them to be the picture of who I was “wanting” to come into my life.
Honestly, it wasn’t until I started listening to Access Consciousness that I heard it clearly. It finally dawned on me that I hadn’t been a demand, not a bitchy, ultimatum, fear-based, angry, demand… No, instead a fiercely loving demand that I’M HAVING HIM. YUP. I’M HAVING MY MAN.
It was wild. I bypassed “how” and I bypassed “wanting” and I bypassed “when or where” and went straight to a loving “I’m done with this and I’m having him and I’m having him NOW…” That everything changed.
I had heard from Gurutej back a year ago, and that week heard from my energy worker Lanaiya King, “sign up for spiritual singles.” I did not want to sign up for Spiritual Singles.
Yet I was HAVING HIM.
And so I wrote the most lean, mean, to the point, totally authentic, short, in one-sitting profile… Only put one picture up, not even the one I wanted but the only one saved on the laptop I was using… And I said to the Universe, “FINE. Here. I’m showing up. I’m having him.”
Two weeks later I met Mark.
He had decided he’s having a tantric relationship and evolving his consciousness through worshiping the Divine Goddess.
That will do, thank you very much. (tee hee)
When you’re willing to demand from fierce love, the Universe listens. For you are finally the space to receive.
Ready for me to show you the way that has worked for me? Can’t wait, you amazing gift to the planet. Contact me if you’re ready.
Dr. Dain Heer is revolutionary in his message. He is a man who understands the world from a unique perspective that shows all of us, including me, how to access your deepest consciousness. For those of you that want to embrace who you are and understand how you got there from an intimate, introspective place, I encourage you to sign up now and for free at http://allanapratt.com/conversations and be sure to tell your friends!
Carol Tuttle is so much. What I mean by that is, she is delicious and she is enlightening. Carol is passionate about her message and she is generous. If you were lucky enough to attend last night’s call you were gifted by her ability to let you know it is amazing to be who YOU are. She is a brilliant woman that is insightful, funny, witty, and wise! I am looking so forward to interviewing her again in the future! If you missed this call don’t worry, just go to http://www.AllanaPratt.com/members.
I used to be afraid that if I loved myself too much, I’d become stuck-up, a snob… No one would like me, my head would explode. I thought if I had too much pleasure, I’d forget to take the garbage out, pick up my son from school, or even remember what day of the week it was. I was terrified to let go and be wild, free, with unbridled passion for the unknown, dancing through the mystery. Would I have to leave society?
What’s wild is that the exact opposite is true!
In fact, it’s the insecure people who are stuck up, overcompensating for the lack of “enoughness” they feel inside.
In fact, it’s the ones in denial and avoidance that procrastinate and break their word. Happy, confident people are the most reliable around!
In fact, people who love themselves to the core are the most generous people I know, with healthy boundaries so people don’t mess with them, willing to take risks to live their dreams while being truly moved to the core with gratitude, with what they have right now.
When you respond to a breakup with falling madly in love with yourself, life with you is delicious, and THAT’S attractive to the opposite sex!
When you’re in love with the core of you, judgment dissolves, and thus you don’t attract those that judge you either.
When you are humbled by your grandeur, full from the inside out, you attract someone from a place of choice (not need), able to receive their love, for you know your worth.
It’s almost like the inner King and Queen that reside in your heart, made manifested on the outside world.
How does it get even more delicious than that? Let’s find out!
Okay, here’s where I breathe through a wee veil of nervousness to tell you this. Good thing I’m writing this part from Minneapolis St. Paul airport with a beer, chips, salsa and guac, and a hockey game going on… I’m in my element!
How many of us have had sex just because we were horny, or because we were so lonely we just wanted touch, or right after a breakup to prove we still “had it?” Or at least you know someone who did that… (smile)
The first thing to acknowledge is that we’re sexual beings, and that’s not bad! That wonderful!
I mean look out the window, friends! Every bee, tree, and person got here through sex! Take away sex and it’s a barren land…
How could something so pleasurable and powerful be bad?
And yet when we’re newly broken up, things get a little muddy and we can fall into the trap that just sex alone is going to fill the void in our heart. And while it’s certainly a momentary high (pure genital copulation alone has never made me have lasting fulfillment)… And in fact, having booty calls now make me feel more empty than full.
And so what is a healthy, sexual, sensual person to do?
MAKE LOVE TO THE DIVINE.
Excuse me?
Well, at least it’s what’s worked for me and manifested the most extraordinary man I’ve ever met.
I would self-pleasure and imagine I was making love with the Divine Masculine. I’ve counseled women to do the same, and men to self-pleasure to various flavors of the Divine Feminine…
I believe that ultimately there’s no one really out there anyway: that we are ONE and meet aspects of ourselves through relationships.
Thus, the sooner you start loving the man inside you, the woman inside you, your other half, to become ONE… Absolutely open in your authentic, sexual, sensual, sacred expression, the sooner you can experience it in the real world! At least that is EXACTLY what happened to me.
I am experiencing the fullness, richness, and diversity of sacred dark and light sexuality with my partner. And it’s as if he’s the space for me to have ME mirrored right back to me… and I keep expanding.
It’s exquisite. And I want that for you, for its own beauty. And it creates the space for an extraordinary relationship, when you’re ready to choose that.
Carol Tuttle believes in having an amazing life and wants you to do the same. I can’t wait for you to learn from this inspiring woman how much she can teach you about embracing the fullness of who you are, and touch your soul the same way she’s touched mine. I encourage you to sign up now and for free at http://allanapratt.com/conversations and be sure to tell your friends!
I am sooooo juicy and replenished and grateful to be here with my son!
He’s on book 7 chapter 19 of Harry Potter… in his element!
I am getting inspired again for many new bursts of creativity from having unplugged.
AND with Carol Tuttle being on the show this coming week, I am going to both bold and vulnerable as I ask her some personal questions about my own life situation.
Be sure to submit YOUR questions so I can incorporate yours as well.
And THANK YOU SO MUCH for ALL your responses to my video asking YOU to help shape Intimate Conversations as the show grows.
Can’t wait to put into action all your insights and requests to take this show to the next dimension.
Especially thank you for your kind words about my ability to elicit information, insights and truths that other interviews just don’t cover, a depth of authenticity that truly refreshes and uplifts you- Thank you!
OK, see you this Thursday LIVE with Carol Tuttle, master energy therapist as we unblock whatever’s stopping you from the next delicious level of your existence.
HUGE LOVE,
Allana
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After a breakup, don’t you just miss someone to talk to? Someone to touch? Sad but true, that sometimes even the fighting is better than total silence and aloneness, right? Sad but true, sometimes we settle and start dating someone new just to fill the void rather than truly being interested in them, yes? Loneliness can eat us alive.
I remember my times of loneliness, how I first ran from it, stayed busy, overworked, volunteered, filled every waking second with something to keep my mind off of how I’d feel all alone. I’d even stay up until midnight working or reading just to avoid acknowledging being alone. In bed. Only one side warm. Alone.
I remember the Dr. Suess book my mom gave me, Oh, the Places You’ll Go! “Alone is something you’ll be quite a lot.” It’s true. In life, rarely are we with people 24/7. Alone is part of the gig.
If you can embrace being alone, the loneliness can shift.
If you avoid and resist being alone, the loneliness makes you its slave.
This is probably the biggest gift I can give my clients: to stop avoiding being alone, for in being alone, you can find you, you find God. You find eternity. Life force energy that flows in you, as you, through you.
You find that your inner world goes on forever, as far reaching inward as the Universe stretches outward.
You stop resisting your own company and become quite fond of yourself.
You make peace with your demons and invite them all to dinner.
And your alone time shifts from lonely to luscious. You begin to crave time to simply be, to listen, to connect.
You allow the ebbs and flows of life: alone time, people time… You trust the process.
And this of course dissolves all neediness, and makes you sexy as hell. Nice bonus.
And it’s great to have someone show you the way, hold space as you feel, be the banks of the river for you while you get your footing. A loving guide like me.
