Author Archive for Allana Pratt, Intimacy Expert – Page 2

Escape Bully at Work

Q: Hi Allana, I am a 37 year old male and I work with someone who is infuriating on a regular basis. We’re equals, yet he feels the need to constantly speak to me in this awful, condescending manner. He tells me he hates how I answer the phone. He repeats things several times as I am too dumb to understand it. And on more than one occasion he has asked me why they even hired me in the first place. I have been dealing with this for almost a year and I’m about to snap. How do I keep from decking this one guy one day?

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She’s not interested in sex recently!

Q: My girlfriend and I have been together for a couple of years now and she seems less interested in having sex lately. What can I do to spark her interest without seeming like I am always begging for more sex?

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Had a Miscarriage. Feel Ashamed and Alone

Q: Allana, I recently had a miscarriage. It was very early in the pregnancy and I never told my boyfriend I was even pregnant. I feel so alone and ashamed. I’m too embarrassed to say anything now but each day is it getting harder as I go through this alone. I’ve never lost anyone – not my parents, grandparents, pets and I feel as if this is all my fault. Do you have any advice to help someone like me or am I a lost cause?

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I Want Kids, He Doesn’t

Q: My husband and I are about to celebrate our 10 year anniversary. For a decade, it has just been the two of us which has been great but I am starting to feel an emptiness. We talked about getting a pet but I think I want to add children. Neither of us wanted kids before but things change, people change, I changed. How do ease someone into a conversation like that?

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Somatic Sexual Wholeness

I wanted to share this amazing journey with you.

This 3 part-series of articles was just published in Elephant Journal about Somatic Sexual Wholeness. The author very courageously shares her journey of reclaiming her sexuality and beyond, the spirit of her heart.

I am truly amazed and extremely humbled by her journey, and so grateful that she chose to write about it with such rawness and transparency.

I hope by reading this, you are as inspired and transformed as I have been.

Part one: https://www.elephantjournal.com/2017/07/the-unconventional-therapy-that-got-me-back-in-the-sex-game/
Part two: https://www.elephantjournal.com/2017/07/how-yoni-massage-helped-me-heal-from-generational-trauma-shame-adult/
Part three: https://www.elephantjournal.com/2017/07/one-truth-about-owning-our-sexuality-we-can-all-benefit-from-adult/

All my love,
A.

Can’t Seem to Walk Away

Q: Allana, I can not seem to escape this cycle of a toxic relationship that I’m in. We break up, he calls, I go running back. We break up, I call, he comes running back. We can’t see to quit each other but we are terrible together. We fight, mostly words, but I did slap him once. We are just so wrong for each but in the moments we are together, it feels right. We just can’t walk away – how do I finally walk away?

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