When I was a little girl I dreamed of being the Sugar Plum Fairy! I would go to my ballet classes with the perfect little dance outfit (my fav were my pink tights w/a black leotard) and my hair all done up in a perfect bun – oh, my poor mom! Every Christmas, we would go see the Nutcracker, and one year, I got to go backstage to meet the Fairy! I was so excited, I still remember thinking it was going to be a dream come true. I stood in line to get her autograph, and then reality hit – her toes were bleeding, her face was caked with make-up, she was not friendly and didn’t say or word or look me in the eyes. I was so confused! This certainly wasn’t my dream moment.Read More
Before I gave birth and lost all of my dignity on a hospital room table, I was so preoccupied with what people thought of me it often led to inaction. I couldn’t stand it if I knew someone disapproved of what I was doing; I searched for approval around every corner. I remember feeling so ashamed when my husband rebuffed my advances, or being embarrassed when I helped a stranger on the street and my “friends” were appalled I would talk to someone like “that.”
It’s crazy now to think that I was more worried about the approval of people that didn’t really care about me or love me than I was about leading an authentic life. Then I had my son and my eyes were open.Read More
For Mom’s guilt is as ubiquitous as dirty diapers and way, way dirtier! Do you feel guilty when you take “me time?” Are you afraid that if you don’t get everything done on your list your life will break down and be a chaotic mess? Are you afraid to be sexy, because your friends may not approve? I’ve felt all of this and more, and to be honest I still do, but I made a decision – I will not let guilt run my life. I will be sexy, sensual and satisfied and to heck with everything else!
I’m writing this blog to share with you more of more journey in the hopes that you will learn from my lessons and realize that no matter what obstacles you may face you can be a sexy, sensual and soulful woman.Read More
The past three years having been an amazing ride for me. I worked with Leeza Gibson as her Sexy Mom Expert on her nationwide show, I ended one of the best relationships I’ve had to date, sold my home in a CRAZY market, and learned to appreciate a simpler life. I also came to be a big decision – now is the time to fall in love with ME. I’m committed to love more myself more fully than ever before. To do that, here’s what I’ve decided to STOP doing:
1. Stop thinking from my head … and start thinking from my body, my heart, and talking to myself as if my heart is talking.
2. Stop worrying about how I compare to other women. Instead I’ll let other women inspire me, open me up and see them as my sister.